A few years ago I unearthed an old school notebook I'd kept in the mid-1980s. Within its dusty pink cover, buried in its pages, I uncovered a list of yoga poses I used to practice at home. I remember setting aside about an hour, usually on a Sunday evening, and working my way through such dubiously noted poses as “trikaswami” (I think I must have meant “trikonasana”) and “swan” (probably a variation of cobra). When I rediscovered this record of my early yoga practice I had by then qualified as a yoga teacher – which was one of my aspirations at the time of the notebook. What struck me in retrospect was how randomly I had sequenced my asanas, with frequent transitions from sitting to standing and back again. I mentioned this to Shiva Rea during a teaching intensive I took with her once, and she smiled and said, “But you know what? You probably really loved your practice!” And you know what? I did.
One of the reasons I had a home yoga practice at all was that I had started to attend a free weekly yoga class at my college, and the teacher impressed upon us the importance of self sufficiency and practicing on our own in addition to the class. She even suggested a designated amount of time we should aim to hold each asana – I think it was either one minute or two, this being before the rise of “vinyasa flow”! Home yoga served me well as it cost nothing – always a bonus as a young college student – and there were barely a handful of yoga centres in London to be found.
Self practice with distance guidance from a teacher is nothing new. In his book “Yoga Body” Mark Singleton documents how the technologies of visual reproduction, printing and photography, helped to democratize hatha yoga in the first four decades of the 20th century. Among the early yoga asana self-help manuals were Yogi Ghamande's 1905 publication, “Yogasopana Purvacatuska,” in which the author even provided his address so that students could write to him with any questions. Sri Yogendra, a Bombay-based guru, was another major advocate of the demystification of yoga, offering do-it-yourself manuals such as “Hatha Yoga Simplified” in 1928. By the 1970s we had Richard Hittleman's “Yoga for Health” and Lilias Folan's “Yoga and You” on our televisions. Yoga videos gave away to DVDs, then MP3s, now apps. Of course, we can let go of the teacher all together and do our own thing, although as my early notebooks show, some initial guidance and experience can be useful!
Today there are hundreds of yoga venues and classes available in London and I now even teach at some of them. But oddly things seem to have come full circle with regards to my personal practice, as I've grown less inclined to attend group classes and more drawn to rolling out my mat at home again. For me the advantages of this approach are not to be ignored.
The first elephant in the room is money. Along with the rising price of a class there can be the additional cost of transportation or parking, and maybe you splash out on a fancy juice in the cafe afterwards. But people need to make a living and it's good for the economy to put in as well as take out, so let's move on.
There's the time. It takes time to get to and from the studio, check in and get changed, which when added on to a 90 minute yoga class can end up taking up about 3 hours of your day. That may or may not be the most efficient use of your energy. There are occasions when getting into class at a popular studio can be about as calming as checking in at the airport at the height of the summer holidays. Plus at home you don't have to stand in line for the bathroom or continually apologize for stepping on somebody's towel. You can practice the yoga you need at the time you have available. And although setting your own yoga times can be a double edged sword, it's one that helps with self discipline. When you haven't paid for the class in advance and don't have to meet up with anyone else, it can take a good deal of mental strength to show up rather than procrastinate!
Similarly, home practice challenges and strengthens our ability to focus, our work ethic and often our patience. Having trouble with that hip opening posture again? The fridge, computer and phone are right there and there's nobody watching. And when I get knocked out of a pose for the umpteenth time by my playful son, I have to remind myself that shouting at a loving, trusting five-year-old child is not very mindful.
You do need space to practice at home, but just enough for your mat. Creating a space might also create the opportunity to de-clutter or tidy up. (Oh, and a word of advice – if you do inversions at the wall, don't knock down any framed pictures. As yoga injuries go, it's an odd one, but I am speaking from experience on that one). If the weather's right, you might be able to take your mat outside into your garden or a local park and enjoy the best yoga venue in world, the open air.
I am glad my local studios are thriving. I still love to learn from other teachers and I don't think I've ever been to a class where I didn't hear something new or draw inspiration. Now when I do attend a group class I experience it as a treat and not a chore. Like going on a great vacation, it can be rejuvenating, enlightening, transformative and can thoroughly refresh our perspective. But it's always good to be home.
By Laura Denham-Jones
Laura Denham-Jones is a London-based yoga teacher. She originally trained in San Francisco with Larry Schultz and has taken numerous other trainings and yoga intensives with teachers such as Shiva Rea, Dharma Mittra, David Swenson, Tias Little, Pattabhi Jois, Baron Baptiste, Beryl Bender Birch, and Judith Lasater. Aside from teaching a dynamic style of yoga class, she is a keen runner and also teaches yoga for sports as well as Pilates. Laura has contributed to several newspapers and magazines and created yoga sequences for three books about yoga, running and triathlon. When she's not teaching yoga she's at home being a regular city dweller, catching up with friends, (and laundry), and being a mum! www.lauradenhamjones.com
Celebrate your home practice with the following YogaDownload Classes:
Get Up & Flow - Jackie Casal Mahrou Everyday Warrior - Nancy Nielsen
And you wouldn't say no to more money. A career filled with meaning and purpose.
And a family that is wildly happy, healthy and fulfilled. So do I. And so does every other woman we know. But what do you REALLY want? When you dig deeper. Go further. And feel fully into your heart. (Hint: Think your 13 year old dreams and hidden desires) Of course, we all know that each of us has a limited amount of time in this body. On this earth. With these unique passions, gifts and abilities. And each one of us wants to feel fully alive, joyful and fulfilled. Even if we say all we want is to lose weight, get more money and feel more confident. But if someone asked you, what do you really want. How would you respond? You probably reply that you are grateful and content. While under your breath, and deep in your bones you're exhausted of a life that has gone stale. Now tell me, what part of yourself do you put on mute in order to not seem....ungrateful?
I ask my clients this question all the time and while each woman is on a different part of their journey.
The one thing that never seems to change.... Is that they seriously, fiercely and adamantly don't want to admit that they want more. More love. More passion. More excitement. More abundance. More romance. More adventure. More everything. And I know exactly how that feels. Because we've all been there. We've all been convinced. Deeply and utterly convinced that our worth comes from our sacrifice, not our vibrance. And as many times as we say that we want to love ourselves... We just don't believe that it's possible. Or even allowed. Someone said it was vain. Egotistical. Obnoxious. Selfish. To care about how we look, how we feel and what we want. And we took that to believe that we wouldn't be safe if we were truly happy, fulfilled, beautiful, successful, exceptional, <insert bliss statement here>... Dimming our dreams because someone said that we had our head in the clouds.
Taking another bite of food to numb our craving to be seen and heard, when it feels like no one is listening. Scrolling aimlessly through Facebook in pursuit of that one post that will make us feel truly connected, loved and valued. Wearing clothes that feel frumpy and conservative, because we are afraid of what people would say if we wore something wildly us. We even do it to each other. Many time's we don't mean to. But often we will say things that might drag someone back down to earth. Dimming their light, in an attempt to feel less dim our selves.
A friend tells you her great news. You tell her that you read something awful in the news this week.
You see someone succeeding doing something you dream of doing. You search for their every fault. They can't be that good. They just can't.
Someone has more confidence, a fitter body, thriving business etc. and all you can think is, well it's WAY easier for her because........ And of course, these thoughts get us nowhere but tangled deep in a state of desperation and negativity. Whether it's pulling ourselves down because we don't want look too ambitious or dragging down others to keep from recognizing where we let ourselves down. It's time to ask yourself. For the one thing you've been avoiding. Now close your eyes. Take the deepest, fullest, luscious breath in. Exhale and let your mind get quiet. Leave your day behind. I beg of you. LET IT GO. And then ask yourself, from the bottom of your precious heart....
What do I REALLY want? Now tell me, what does the real, authentic and wildly feminine <<First Name>> want?
What would your life look like if she were open to it getting EVEN BETTER?
What would her body look like if it was safe to feel feminine, beautiful and exquisite no matter what?
What would she wear?
Where would she live?
Where would she go?
Who would she be? Comment below with your answer right now. Proclaim it. Allow it. Invite it into your life. Because you deserve to have that life and the only thing that is really stopping you is you.
By Amber Chalus
Amber Chalus is a Free-Spirited Explorer, Certified Health Coach and Professional Yoga Teacher at AmberChalus.com. She currently lives in Nipawin, Saskatchewan with her charming British husband and adorable rescue dog, Indi.
Her mission is to help and inspire women to nurture their physical and spiritual health through yoga, holistic nutrition and radical self love. She believes that every woman deserves to feel connected to her body, radiate with confidence and live the life of her dreams - naturally!
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The Power of Your Intention - Nancy Nielsen Alanna Kaivalya Live - Bundle 11
"The problem is not desire. It's that your desires are too small." - Sri Nisargadatta
Remember that morning about a month ago, when you woke up late, in full freak-out mode because your alarm didn’t go off? In the first few seconds of your eyes being open, you realized that your entire day was going to be totally screwed. You were going to miss that traffic window when it’s not a complete disaster and that 9am meeting. You spent the next 30 minutes racing around like a chicken with its head chopped off getting yourself and the kids dressed, bookbags packed, lunch money handed out (cause there was no time to make them, you were lucky they got breakfast). Your heart raced, half the things you needed to get done weren’t, you missed things at work, wound up with whatever you could forage at the ofice for breakfast, which was a heck of a lot less healthy than your usual smoothie. The entire rest of the day felt out of sync. You were exhausted before the day had even begun.
Still disagree that what happens in the morning sets the tone of your day?
For me, if I’m not settled and my day starts off on the wrong foot, there is no hope of recovering. The whole day is going to be a mess. Now, I know there are things I can’t control, like traffic, the weather or other people missing appointments, but it’s critical that I do everything I can to make sure that I get my day started in a way that will set me up for success.
A few weeks ago, I asked you on Facebook how you start your day. I got back some great answers that I thought I would share, including how I start my own.
My day does not begin without essential oils and taking care of my skin. This is a necessity for me; if I don’t manage my well being, things go downhill fast. I never leave my bedroom without my morning skin care care routine of cleansing, toning, and moisturizing. I’ve also dealt with IBS symptoms for years, so I don’t step foot out of my bedroom without using my protocol for my digestive system including a little frankincense under my tongue, among other things. I can’t even think about facing the day until those two things are taken care of.
Once my face and my digestive system are taken care of, I will go downstairs, let the dog out and do a quick sweep of the house to straighten it up. It’s really important to have a clean, neat environment so that I’m not distracted by it or lose time looking for things in it. I tend to go to bed before the rest of the family, and I have to say, it’s amazing how much damage they can do after I go to bed! A morning sweep ensures everything is where it needs to be so I can get done what I have to. It goes a long way to help reduce stress in my day. Then, I check email and get some work done on the computer before anybody else is up.
When the initial scan of email is done, I make a superfood mix smoothie with peppermint oil, raw cacao, maca powder, banana, almond butter, pour myself a huge bottle of water that I’ll carry around with me for the day and then I am out the door for a workout. Having the right balance of nutrition starting with the first thing you put in your mouth for the day is so important to being able to maintain your energy throughout the day and will support your body when the stress starts to hit. I cannot stress this enough – Good nutrition takes some planning and you want to make sure your day starts off right. Start your day with sugar cereal and you’re going to have a mess on your hands.
So, what are some of YOUR suggestions?
There were lots of votes for green smoothies, lemon water – both warm and cold and lots of fresh fruit and veggies, some with a little protein added. Great suggestions.
There are several coffee drinkers among you, which isn’t bad as long as you keep it to one cup with as little milk or sugar as possible (I would prefer to see you kick the cream-and-sugar habit altogether but I know enough not to mess with people’s coffee!), and make sure to drink plenty of water after to rehydrate what the caffeine steals.
Another GREAT suggestion was oil pulling. Swilling around a teaspoon of coconut oil (or any other oil if you don’t like coconut) for about 20 minutes daily is an ancient Ayurvedic method that is said to pull toxins out of your body. It is also said to help with cavities and plaque. It whitens your teeth and they feel great when you’re done brushing in the morning – even one of the ladies from my marketing team said it curbs her appetite!
Taking a probiotic first thing in the morning is another good one. You want to take a probiotic on an empty stomach and wait about 45 minutes before eating so try to make it the very first thing you do. By the time you’ve had your shower, gotten dressed and the kids going, 45 minutes has flown by, and the probiotic has had a chance to do its thing, balance out your gut. Our modern lives wreak havoc on our digestive system and a good probiotic is a great preventative measure.
Finally, what a perfect way to create a calm mind and get your heart rate and metabolism up for the entire day, than with some yoga.
Setting yourself up to win the well-being game really does start the moment you wake up. If you get into a routine that will support the rest of your day, you’ll have more energy, be calmer and have the strength to make it to at least Happy Hour!
TIP:
Take baby steps. If you know you have to revamp your morning routine, pick ONE thing to change at a time! For example, start off by keeping a water bottle by your bed so that water and your probiotic are the first thing you grab. Once you’ve got that down and it’s automatic, add something else, like a sun salutation or two.
I’ve just shared some great ways to start your day – what’s your routine? Share here, on Facebook or Twitter!
Previously published on Hayley's Blog
HERE’s the original Facebook Post
By Hayley Hobson
With her unique specialization in the combination and complement of pilates, nutrition and yoga, Hayley offers a cocktail of lifestyle changes that produce real and lasting results. Hayley is a columnist for Yoganonomus, Positively Positive, Mindbodygreen and Elephant Journal and has been featured in Pilates Style Magazine, Bridal Guide, Natural Health Magazine and Triathlete Magazine. She currently lives in Boulder, CO with her husband, former world-ranked triathlete, Wes Hobson and their two beautiful daughters, Makenna and Madeline. Read more about Hayley and check out her new book at HayleyHobson.com
Core Yoga 4
Cravings. No one is immune – not even us. They can be challenging, annoying and all consuming.
What's your love-hate craving?
For many of us cravings feel like a never-ending spin cycle. Our innocent “I’ll just have one bite” turns into a daily indulgence. Before we know it, that sneaky food sinks its claws in us, holding us hostage. Eventually that one little bite turns into a full-blown addiction and starts to take its toll on our health.
Sound familiar?
Cravings are tricky because we want to learn how to listen to, trust and honor our body and its messages. But cravings can be very deceptive.
We may think, “I’m craving a glass of wine so therefore it must be what my body needs.”
Not so fast.
Sadly, it’s often the foods we loooooovvve, crave and feel that we wouldn’t want to live without that cause the most damage in our body.
So how do we know when are cravings are an insightful signal from our body trying to help us get back into balance versus a sabotaging little beast?
Therein lies the fun. We have to be willing to deconstruct our cravings.
When venturing into this endeavor we like to start with the physical body first, and then move into the deeper inquiry where we ask, “what am I really craving?” Ask the question and then be willing to hear the answer. You may be surprised to find that a sugar craving is actually masking a craving for deeper meaning in your life or more spiritual connection.
Cravings get a bad rap, but they’re not all bad. We just have to learn how to work with them. Below are some of my favorite strategies for deconstructing cravings – because the more tools we have in our toolboxes the more likely we are to become our most healthy, vibrant selves.
Check out the tips and then leave me a comment. Are these helpful? What are your cravings trying to tell you?
With sweet love for cravings,
Julie Peláez and Jo Schaalman
Jo Schaalman and Julie Peláez are co-authors of the book The Conscious Cleanse: Lose Weight, Heal Your Body, and Transform Your Life in 14 Days, a best-selling, step-by-step guide to help you live your most vibrant life. Together they've lead thousands of people through their online supported cleanse through their accessible and light-hearted approach. They've been dubbed “the real deal” by founder and chief creative director Bobbi Brown, of Bobbi Brown Cosmetics, beauty editor of the TODAY show.
To learn more about “Jo and Jules” and to download a free e-cookbook for a sampling of the delicious food served up on the Conscious Cleanse, please visit consciouscleanse.com.
Pump up your cravings for health with a class by Jo and Jules:
Conscious Cleanse Detox Flow - Jo Schaalman
Traditional Hot Yoga - Julie Peláez
Though there are many reasons, part of it is because we treat the world the way we treat ourselves. And right now the world needs more love, more acceptance and more nourishment.
The more we care for ourselves, the more capacity we have to be a positive change in our world.
Why is this so important in your life? Because I believe that self care is self love in action. And it's the reason why I have made it my mission to inspire women to take beautiful care of themselves.
Has your self-love has become conditional?
Do you pretend to love your body, only to avoid looking at yourself in the mirror?
Do you say that you will take time out for yourself, but find yourself putting others first?
Maybe you even say that you accept yourself, but discover that when things go wrong, you blame yourself for it.
What "conditions" have you put on your self love and acceptance?
What does your body need to look like to finally deserve your love?
What do your thoughts need to be in order to finally gain your trust?
What does your life need to look like to be worthy of your acceptance?
What if you could love and accept yourself right now, without the rules? What would it look like if there were no conditions for your self acceptance?
It may not happen over night. But every moment you have a choice. To be kind to yourself. Or to be mean to yourself. And today I want to remind you that you are worthy of your own love and acceptance.
Want more help getting there? Here are 4 Simple & Beautiful Self-Love Rituals
♥ Self Love Affirmations - Choose a word or statement that resonates with you, "I love myself deeply and completely" and repeat it often throughout the day. Especially when it feels like your confidence and acceptance feels non-existant. Even when you don't feel like doing it, remember that you were born worthy and you do not have to do anything to deserve your love.
♥ Rose Quartz Stones + Rose scents - Rose essential oil boosts self esteem, confidence, and mental strength. Rose quartz crystals have properties that promote all types of love including self-love, nurturing love and romantic love and is connected to the heart chakra. Keep a stone beside your bed or spritz yourself with rose water on the days you need a little extra love.
♥ Loving Mirror Work - Begin a practice of speaking with yourself aloud in the mirror every day. Positive affirmations. Kind words. Compliments. Even a private party naked. And work up to saying I love you while looking into the reflection of your own eyes.
♥ Heart Openers - Get on your yoga mat. Or do it anywhere. Back-bends and heart openers are perfect for liberating the Heart Chakra. Imagine radiating the light of your heart out into the world and in having that same beautiful light return back to you 10 fold. Notice the colour you see when you close your eyes. Feel it's warm light glow around your body as you move out into your day.
Today, be honest with yourself. Where are you depriving yourself of self acceptance? How have you limited your joy? How can you finally take the "conditional" restrictions off of your self love?
Let this be the day that you give yourself full permission to be who you are, with love. I'll be with you all the way.
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Building the Warrior Heart - Ana Forrest Strength through Vulnerability - Lisa Richards
I'm learning that the solution is simple. I could sit here and write that the answer is love (because it is)... but let's get real here. Most of us sweep the fears under the rug. Or we avoid it by spending time on the internet, working out excessively, and eating food we shouldn't. Let's take a step back here. Be WILLING to address your fear. Yep, that's scary. We might as well build fear around the fact we should address our fear. But seriously... plain and simple. Write down how you are feeling. Give yourself SPACE to feel. Write down WHY you think you are feeling this way. THEN... write down what you WANT to focus on. Clearly, it's not our fear (so why do we live our lives STUCK in it!?). This will help you begin to decipher what is going on in those heads of ours. Baby steps create radical change. Let it be chaotic. Because it is. It's not about finding the answers. Instead, it's all about creating a new relationship with our fears. Do we even know what our current relationship with fear is? I'm not just talking about those major (irrational) fears... like spiders or flying on airplanes (yep, those are mine). Start to tune in with your brain. Make the connection from brain to body to heart on a daily basis. Are you fearful of parking somewhere because someone might see your car? Are you fearful of going out in public in your workout clothes because someone might judge you? Fears go through our brains every damn day. But have you stopped to notice? The only way to change our relationship with them is to build awareness around them. Let me tell you a secret. WE CREATE OUR OWN FEARS. Truth bomb. I guarantee you that NO ONE even saw your car. I guarantee you that NO ONE even looked twice at you in your workout clothes. Everyone is already so self consumed; they are too busy worrying about themselves. Breathe. Fears are illusions. Where can we soften around our fear? Where can we surrender, knowing, that half the time our lives are being limited by these thoughts in our head? Begin to trust. Begin to re-direct your energy. So, where is it that you want your energy to go? I promise, once you start to re-establish your relationship with your fears and your thoughts that go round and round in your head by the minute, you are going to fall backwards. Because you will have JUST realized how incredibly powerful and empowering YOU are. Own it. Show up. Be willing. And as always, smile. Because, you can't get it wrong.
By Meredith Cameron
Learning that she and we are more capable than we give ourselves credit for, Meredith Cameron creates space for students to reach out, dig deeper, and not take themselves too seriously. An advocate for creating the life we live, Meredith is influenced by her teachers, Shannon Paige and Nancy Kate Rau, what the world throws on her lap, her travels, and her daily interactions with others. All of this, infuses freedom into her teachings, allowing students to feel their own sense of empowerment. Visit www.mcameronyoga.com/blog.
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Gentle Hatha 5 - Jackie Casal Mahrou Hearts Wide Open - Dana Damara
“My passion on the mat is proper alignment, powerful breath and effortless flow so you feel that off your mat. Your practice becomes sacred space where you arrive to find more meaning, depth, authenticity and integrity in your life."
- Dana Damara: mother, author, yoga instructor, speaker and yogini. Visit DanaDamara.com for more inspiration from Dana.
This is the most vulnerable thing (and longest post) I have ever shared publicly. Ever. Last week’s loss of one of the greatest actors and comedians hit me hard. I know his pain, R.I.P. Robin Williams. By now I’m sure your Facebook news feed has been filled with loving remembrances of not just Robin Williams, but other people’s loved ones who suffered like he did. You probably read a few stories from friends realizing that you never knew that they too were suffering in silence. You may have even felt a hurt in your heart because you personally struggle with this silent sadness as well. I get it. I read it…and I felt it. There’s this part of me that really struggles and I don’t mean struggles to eat the right food or exercise daily. I mean struggles to get out of bed and even function. The kind of struggle where I’ve laid in bed crying for 3 days straight to feel “normal” again. To be the happy person I know resides inside me. I was a really sad kid. Like really, really sad. I would go to bed and pray to God that I wouldn’t wake up in the morning. I would pray that He would have mercy on me and keep me from the daily struggle of life. Just getting up and facing the day was so much to handle and there were no logical reasons I felt that way. Everybody feels sad at times, and even depressed, but depression is real and it is debilitating for some. I look back at 6 year old Jessica and I’m so sad for her that it was such a struggle and that suicide felt like the best possible option. Most people don’t even think of someone as young as 6 being depressed. I can still feel what it was like desperately wanting to ask for help but being afraid of what might happen if I told the truth. The truth of how much I wanted it all to stop. For some of us, living is so hard. I set really high standards for myself, even at 6 years old. I’m not sure if that helped or made matters worse. But what I do know is that the thought of suicide wasn’t scary because being good enough just didn’t add up. It was easier to think of not living than it was to think of living a life not good enough. Death has never been something I feared. I fear being injured which is why I am terrified of things like airplanes and bunging jumping, but death has never scared me. The only thing that kept me going as a kid was knowing how much my family loved me. Despite my feelings of desperation I just could not do that to my mother. I knew she would never forgive herself for having not seen the signs. I couldn’t break her heart like that. I couldn’t let my dad suffer the loss of a child. (Thanks Mom & Dad for loving me so much!). I also couldn’t leave my siblings with a broken mom. What I wished had been different was that it would have felt safe to say I need help. To say help me, I am dying on the inside. Something inside me never felt right and it never felt safe to tell anyone. I was terrified that if I asked for help they would take me away from my mom or that my parents would go bankrupt with medical debt trying to take care of me and that felt more selfish than suicide. Instead I spent my days crying. I have always been teased by my siblings for being oversensitive. While it might be true, how would things have been different if they only knew how many times I sat down with a plan to meet death and it was sparing them the sadness that I didn’t. I know they didn’t know what I was struggling with deep down inside. I know that they loved me and were just being siblings and I am grateful that I was treated normal by them. Plus, to be honest, I wasn’t prepared to deal with them pitying me if I had come forward about my thoughts of suicide and how I was sick with depression. It was easier to have them watch me in confusion as I sat on the floor hyperventilating with anxiety attacks on an almost daily basis. It was easier to be a “freak” than it is to admit that I suffer from depression. How the heck did that feel safer? Instead…I was shamed into silence. I suffered in silence. Depression is a silent killer. Recently I told my mom about my thoughts of suicide as a kid and she had no idea. I know that her even knowing I felt that way must hurt for her. As a mother I know how much it would sting to know a child was hurting so much inside. But she didn’t know because it was my secret that was easier to keep than share. I certainly don’t share my story for pity. By all means, I cried the entire time I wrote this. But for once it’s easier to share than hide because if just ONE PERSON FEELS LESS ALONE BY READING THIS, then it’s worth dealing with anything else that might come from it. I wish that I could say that I don’t ever deal with depression anymore. But I do. I’ve had to talk with my kids about my depression. That was the least fun thing I’ve ever done in my life. I’ve had to talk to my kids about suicide and what to look for and how to help. I shared with them because I wanted them to understand that I am trying my hardest and that I love so much I am willing to be vulnerable and honest with them. I want them to know that when I’m sad it has nothing to do with them or any external events. I want them to feel safe asking for help if they ever feel this way. I share my story as well in hopes that some of what has worked for me might also work for you or someone you love. Disclaimer real quick: I am not YOUR medical professional. I am sharing my own personal experience and all your medical decisions need to be made with your medical doctor. What I am sharing are tools that have made depression less debilitating and have taken away my almost daily anxiety attacks.
I can tell you that any time as an adult that depression has crept up and kept me in bed crying has been because I wasn’t taking care of myself the way I need too. 11 months ago I quit my day job (best decision of my life). Yet, 3 months later I laid in bed crying for 2-3 days. I couldn’t figure out what was wrong. Why the relapse? I was truly happier than I had been in 15 years. I finally quit that soul sucking job. I was pissed off that depression was doing this to me at a so called happy time of my life. I lost my identity. I had been the banker girl and didn’t know how to be me. MORE IMPORTANTLY, and my husband’s keen observation, was that I also stopped taking care of myself. I stopped being diligent about my daily vitamins, eating every 2-3 hours and I went from walking 2-5 miles per day to walking the dogs for an obligatory ½ mile. I even quit my job teaching yoga. I let go of my healthy routine when I let go of my job. How did I let that happen when living well was my JOB! This takes me back to my depression as a child. I’m sure as a kid I wasn’t getting proper nutrition or adequate exercise for my needs. No fault of my mother. I was a picky eater and hated sports. I lived for the arts and reading as a way of self expression (or self preservation). A way to express myself without words. Sometimes I think of my husband’s pancreatitis and realize that him being sick was one of the greatest gifts I could ever receive. It took me down the road of becoming a nutritionist and yoga teacher. I taught ne about how to heal myself and love myself. I know in my heart that self care is a fundamental act of self love. If you are suffering depression, please reach out to someone for help. Reach out to me if you need too. But start thinking of ways you can love yourself to your greatest potential. In what ways can you be your best self? For the education and less emotional part of this post (because I am a nutritionist after all), please choose one thing and add another item each week until you feel a change. This is for everyone, not just those living with depression. Also, talk with your medical professional for support.
My wish for you is that you have compassion for yourself. non-judgment of your journey and the flexibility to keep moving forward. In the words of Dory in Finding Nemo, just keep swimming. In health, happiness and joy – live your wildly vibrant life! xoxo
By Jessica Wyman
Jessica Wyman is a Wildly Vibrant health coach and yoga teacher. She has a well rounded approach to loving yourself like no other + she specializes in 5-ingredient healthy recipes. She was born and raised in Idaho and has never left her hometown area because she has access to the city while surrounded by the mountains that she backpacks with her husband, teenage sons and giant dogs. As a health-coach-mama she has no time to waste and it's her mission to make foxy, fit and fashionable living a breeze. Get her free 5-Day Wellness Program that gives a realistic approach without a diet.
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While I can’t claim to be a pro at organization, I do know that I’ve learned some tricks throughout the years that have helped me maintain a healthy lifestyle. These are things that now are just second nature and it all starts with having a plan.
One of the most things we hear from people all the time is, “I don’t have enough time to make healthy food.” And boy do I ever get that. We have this idea that grabbing food from a restaurant or salad bar will be quicker than eating at home.
However, when we consider the time it takes to drive to the restaurant, place an order, pay for the food, and drive home again, we could have already made our own meal at home for a fraction of the cost. Besides, food we make ourselves is always healthier because that’s the only way to be 100% sure of what’s actually in our meals.
So what’s a busy working mom of two to do? One of my favorite ways of ensuring I always have a quick meal ready to go is by building a salad bar in my fridge. After grocery shopping, I clean, chop, and store my produce in glass containers (mason jars work great too) so that throughout the week when I need something quick, I simply throw the ingredients together in a bowl and voilá – I have a healthy meal in a matter of minutes!
You might be thinking, this all sounds nice in theory, but I’m far too busy to do all of this.
Wrong! If I can do it, so can you. It’s all about working the plan. Below are five steps to help you transform your refrigerator into you favorite salad bar.
Now I want to hear from you! Are you ready to turn your fridge into a salad bar? Please share your ideas and comments with me below and have fun!
With love and salad bars,
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Connect to Core - Jo Schaalman
I love fresh food and clean eating, but there are still so many untapped sources in the eat clean produce section. I live for 5-ingredient-clean-food recipes and as you’ve probably noticed, I live for the “eat clean” motto. So I get really excited when I try a food that is new to me and love it. This recipe has both things I love – new foods and only 5 ingredients. Maybe I lied a little, I am terrified of trying new foods even though 90% of the time it ends well. So, how about that recipe?! You’re probably dying to know what I possibly made for my first try with basil and that it was so great I want to shout it from the rooftops. Instead I’ll write it on my blog (for you)! It was also so great that my husband ate the first batch in a flash and I had to make it 3 days in a row to keep him happy. Ingredients (there’s only 5!) 1 tablespoon extra virgin olive oil 1 tablespoon balsamic vinegar 5 basil leaves, minced 1 nectarine, pit removed and diced 1/2 large red bell pepper, ribs removed and diced Directions Mix the diced nectarines and bell pepper in a bowl. In a small bowl, mix the olive oil, balsamic vinegar and minced basil. Then pour the dressing on the nectarines and bell peppers, toss until evenly coated. Want more free recipes like this? Click here to get a FREE digital copy of Jessica Wyman’s cookbook, Girlfriends Organic Kitchen. She is a Certified Holistic Nutritionist and Yoga Teacher and put together a collection of crazy delicious vegetarian and gluten free recipes.
Jessica Wyman is a Wildly Vibrant health coach and yoga teacher. She has a well rounded approach to loving yourself like no other + she specializes in 5-ingredient healthy recipes. She was born and raised in Idaho and has never left her hometown area because she has access to the city while surrounded by the mountains that she backpacks with her husband, teenage sons and giant dogs. As a health-coach-mama she has no time to waste and it's her mission to make foxy, fit and fashionable living a breeze. Get her free 5-Day Wellness Program that gives a realistic approach without a diet. Get free healthy recipes and wellness tips you’ll actually use at www.jessica-wyman.com
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By Hari Kalymnios
Edited by Jessica Raye
Hari Kalymnios is a high performance coach whose passion is helping people who need more energy in their lives, understand what it takes to achieve this and live optimally. One of the ways Hari does this is with giving people the gift of experiencing just what a detox cleanse can do for you. To find out more about the ‘Detox with a Difference’ that Hari is running, head to http://thethoughtgym.com/retreats for more information.
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What You Need:8 cups watermelonJuice from 4 lemons1 cup strawberries1 Tbsp agave (or raw honey)3 drops Lemon Essential Oil (supports immune, respiratory and digestive health)2 drops Lime Essential Oil (supports emotional, digestive and respiratory health)Not only do essential oils add a hint of flavor to the drink, they are therapeutic for your body.
What You Do:1). Blend all ingredients in a blender or vitamix.2). Serve over ice, freeze for slushies, or pour into popsicle molds.I have just given you a great recipe for your a sweet treat that’s perfect for the summer. What’s your go-to healthy, sweet treat in the summer? I would love to hear from you. Please leave your comments in the box below.XO, Hayleyphoto credit: www.rawmazing.com
Previously posted on Hayley's Blog
With her unique specialization in the combination and complement of pilates, nutrition and yoga, Hayley offers a cocktail of lifestyle changes that produce real and lasting results. Hayley is a columnist for Elephant Journal and has been featured in Pilates Style Magazine, Natural Health Magazine and Triathlete Magazine. She currently lives in Boulder, CO with her husband, former world-ranked triathlete, Wes Hobson and their two beautiful daughters, Makenna and Madeline. Read more about Hayley and check out her new book at HayleyHobson.com
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By Mohan Ashtakala
Mohan Ashtakala is a writer and a yoga practitioner. He was editor of a regional publication in Colorado for thirteen years. He has studied the original texts of the yoga traditions for many years, and has lived in ashrams across India. His goal is to introduce the fascinating, authentic narratives and wisdom stories of the yoga traditions to the Western audience, The Yoga Zapper – A Novel is his first novel. Visit www.yogazapper.com Check out Mohan's video about the Introduction to The Yoga Zapper & FAQ video
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By Diane Sieg Previously published on Diane's Blog
With a career that has taken her from the chaos of the emergency room to the calm of her yoga mat, Diane Sieg first discovered yoga as a great source of physical and emotional healing during a personal crisis and has been practicing ever since. Today, as an Anusara-Inspired yoga teacher, professional speaker, published author, retreat facilitator and life-saving coach, Diane empowers people to live their most authentic life, both on and off the mat. Her teaching style is a calm intensity with strong alignment based principles. Diane is the creator of 30 Days to Grace: A Daily Practice to Achieve Your Ultimate Goals, both in CD and book format. Read more about Diane at dianesieg.com.
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Immerse yourself in the practices of mindfulness with a weekend of yoga, meditation, deep breathing, journaling, body scan, and walking meditation. Spend the weekend in the beautiful Colorado Rockies with an intimate group of likeminded people to get the support, experience and community you need to create your mindful year. Find out more and register here!
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Let Your Compass Guide the Way - Kylie Larson
Yoga to Touch Your Soul - Christen Bakken
Yes it's early, but this is when the magic happens. You and the sun will reveal your strength at the same time. No need to go all the way to a National Park for a mindful hiking experience, it's all in the intention. Go to a local trail or park, or just a walk through a beautiful neighborhood. Notice what's around you, what you hear, the way the ground feels under your feet. And when you get to your favorite place on the route, Arrive in the Present Moment with this guided meditation from Jackie Casal-Mahrou.
Cooking together is fun. Pick up some fresh produce for a recipe that sounds interesting! If you need some inspiration, try a Millet Buddha Bowl - they're healthy, easy, and totally customizable!
Forrest Yoga 2 - Adv. Intermediate - Jo Schaalman
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Gentle Hatha Yoga 5 - Deep Release - Jackie Casal Mahrou
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By Sarah Platt-Finger
Sarah co-founded ISHTA Yoga, LLC with her husband, Alan Finger in May 2008. She holds the title Yogiraj and developed her own signature class “Sweat and Samadhi,” which is taught by ISHTA teachers worldwide. ISHTA classes and trainings are offered in Stockholm, Munich, London, and Japan. Sarah aspires to share the joy, inspiration, and self-tranformation with her students that she has received through the practice of yoga. Her daughter, Satya, inspires her every day to live a life based on love and self-empowerment. Learn more about ISHTA Yoga at ishtayoga.com and @ISHTAyoga. Follow Sarah on Facebook and Instagram.
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